Such as elevating the conversation and the other person to a higher level. You can extend your hand toward greater understanding instead of giving a slap across the face.
I was unsure how Sis Irijah would respond to a comment I made last week and was pleasantly surprised. She built a bridge where others might have dug in for battle. I still smile when I think of her response.
This isn't a dark street and a couple of bullies trying to harm you, truly.
Be the change you want to see.