Hi Lola,

I wanted to respond to what you posted the other day. I got a few minutes so here ya go

Daycare is my only option, my Mom lives an hour away and she still works full-time (her plan was to retire over a year ago but with the way this country is now she can not, thank you Mr. Bush) and anyway he is MY son and not her responsibility.

you asked people to look deeper - start your own small business? huh in the state our country is in?

I looked into it a while back and No I can't do it. It would be catering or selling Cheesecakes on-line. With the laws I can't do it out of my home kitchen and the licenses ect., way outta my startup price range.

My brother had to close his small business a few months ago, he installed hardwood floors, he had his own business for over 6 year and like a-lot of small businesses he can't afford to do it now, people can not afford luxury services. So now he works at a gas station at night and any other small jobs he can get.

anyway thanks for your input though, I understand what your saying, but it's not that simple.
Have a great day! oh and GO BEARS!