Definitely not something to share here if you did indeed have this experience. No definitely not a place to share it. Lola what were you thinking? These people are your friends? Dam

Sorry but I agree with bigbumbalumba .. people are out of control. I Pray some of you can apologize later for some of the things you have said to others and the past friendships can be repaired. I just don't know that they can at this point. I'm an outsider looking in as I rarely get a chance to post here or anywhere but I do read when I have the opportunity and I can tell you as an outsider I have been appalled at some of the things I have read here. I would have never believed it if I hadn't read and seen with my own eyes. Yes Ray may have started it but he dam sure hasn't been the one to finish it. If you believe Ray is so bad then why would so many of you lay down with him and share the fleas? Attacks are not funny or acceptable from either side and from my perspective the personal insults, ugliness, and just plain hate have come clearly from both sides of the fence. Two wrongs have never made a right. Not sure too many have heard that saying and if they have they definitely didn't understand the meaning.

Pat, friends are hard to find but even harder to keep. I would never insult a friend as you have here and then expect to move on tomorrow as though nothing was ever said. Hope Lola is a bigger woman than me.

Oh and by the way Lola is not a hateful person. She would do anything for anyone of you if you needed it. She is giving and caring. Of course I do know Lola personally and so I have the inside knowledge of being certain her post was never meant to be a joke or anything hateful against Obama or his grandmother. Unfortunately it was bad judgement just as it was obviously bad judgement to share her childhood story.