You trampled all over her personal, heartfelt post to her friends. The LAST thing she wanted was another ray thread.
Get a grip. It is not necessary for you to act as 'judge and jury' of the people here. It is okay if their thinking is different from yours and mine...really!
I did not come here to 'win arguments', I came here to provide some balance on some issues. I try to not make or take posts personally. I feel everyone here has treated me respectfully ~ kindly even ~ and when there have been dustups, we have still made progress in understanding each other.